Don't be stupid, Nigella. Go back to him and stop twatting around being a drama queen. The longer you leave returning to your matrimonial home, the worse it will be for your marriage.
You will feel better about yourself if you get over this bump in your marriage than if you divorce him over this because everyone is telling you to.
Is it likely that he would manhandle you again after this, hmmm? Now get to it.