Apparently, on the first date (the first time they met was not a date because they met through work) he was talking about marriage. Actually, being a lawyer, he talked about a pre-nup rather than marriage.
Marriage would only take place she had gone on holiday with him to meet his friends, presumably on the condition that they returned from holiday after having had a lovely time.
What better way of testing out your intended than by going on holiday with him/her and introducing him/her to your friends?
However, she found his proposal rather too coldly businesslike and cancelled the second date.
I jokingly asked if I could have his number if she had finished with him, but I suspect this won't be forthcoming.
She said she hadn't quite finished with him, only that she didn't feel that she could cope with seeing him again that evening, because she was so confused. Presumably she intended to see him again and was playing hard to get. I think she has lost her chance, to be honest.
If I were him I wouldn't put up with that crap and move on. Doing stuff like this is a good way of finding out how serious and adventurous a woman is about finding a partner.
Of course on the proposed holiday it was envisaged that sex would take place, but she told me she had insisted on separate rooms.
Talk of marriage would indicate that he was serious. If I found him attractive then I would be flattered that he was thinking in those terms. Most men just want a roll in the hay.
I rather admire his technique, if truth be told: no time-wasters and ditherers tolerated. I think she just couldn't cope with the idea of letting him being in charge, because she is used to being in charge.
Also, I would have sex with him here before going on holiday to see if I we had, er, anything in common. If it was awful, then I would have to move on, but if we had fun then I would be looking forward to the proposed holiday with slightly less trepidation.
I think his technique is a great way of hurrying things along and it is still a good deal for the woman. If you fancy the guy then why not fuck him for the hell of it? If he wants to offer you even more, why not consider it seriously instead of pretending you are still a virgin princess?
Another dinner in a nice restaurant and a nice holiday for a few rolls in the hay sounds all right to me.
I daren't even call her now because I have a feeling that little episode in her life is now over. I bet they never had another date.