We all have an identity based on the 5 badges of identity. http://thevoiceofreason-ann.blogspot.co.uk/2016/08/the-badges-of-identity.html
We cannot help the race/class/age/sex we are but we can change our minds about morality. There are only two kinds of morality because there are only two sexes. http://thevoiceofreason-ann.blogspot.co.uk/2017/05/there-are-only-two-kinds-of-morality.html
The two kinds of morality the West can have are broadly:
1) patriarchal moral values supported by the Abrahamic faiths and
2) their antithesis being promoted by our degenerate feminist matriarchy. The conflict can be resolved by men depriving most women of the vote (by narrowing the franchise to taxpayers only) and marrying them after abolishing no fault divorce and repealing totalitarian anti-discrimination legislation.