You have two children: one is normal and the other suffers from a disability.
This is a no-brainer of a question if you are capable of thinking rationally and are neither a coward nor a hypocrite.
QUESTION NO 2
You have two Down's Syndrome children: one a boy and a girl. They are both in danger and you can only save one of them. Let us say you love them both equally. Which one would you save? There is a correct answer.
The correct answer is that you save the male one because you don't want to have to deal with your Down's Syndrome daughter getting knocked up by every passing sex predator, and this means having to sterilise her.