Antisemites obsessing about Jews

Do Jews obsess about gentiles the way gentiles obsess about Jews? Should they?

Let's say Jews are aristocrats/celebs and gentiles peasants/fans. Who do you think will be obsessing about whom more?

Am I right in thinking that antisemitic gentiles are deeply offended that Jews only think of gentiles for a fraction of the time antisemites think about Jews? It's like being in a relationship where you know you think much more about the other person than they think of you.