@MGTOWisFREEDOM A problem for the MGTOW Agony Uncle at https://t.co/IXPdHpHAkY My solution: https://t.co/qpcmGqFVMM— Claire Khaw (@ntfem) August 23, 2017
bitter beta male blames wife for house prices rising.
Claire Khaw My advice to this man is to ask his wife why he shouldn't divorce her first before she divorces him.
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Claire Khaw I know, but he can threaten her with it and make his feelings clear. The best threats are the ones you don't have to carry out.
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Beyonce Castle he should think himself lucky that she hasn't left him already.
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Claire Khaw "I cannot help noticing that lately you have not been happy. I have a few grievances I would like to air too, but you go first."
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Claire Khaw The worst that could happen is what he fears, but it would hurt her too. Mutually Assured Destruction.
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Claire Khaw The point is to manage it so it seems fair enough. Let's role play. You role play her and I him.
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Beyonce Castle he doesn't appreciate how difficult looking after children and a home is and he never will
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Claire Khaw "But darling, the children have all grown up and have moved out years ago! Whatever do you mean?"
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Beyonce Castle looking after children is 24/7 and i have worked twice as hard as you and I deserve a retirement.
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Beyonce Castle sitting
on a train for a few hours is relaxing me-time compared to looking
after children and doing all the drudge work in the house.
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Claire Khaw "But I am already in my 60s and we already have grandchildren!"
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Claire Khaw "My
work is not getting easier and I fear our retirement will not be as
comfortable as we would wish it to be if we don't make savings where we
can. You can do a bit of cleaning, can't you, darling? With the Brexit
chaos and all, we all have to tighten our belts, don't we, dear?"
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Claire Khaw "I
know you are one of the ladies who lunch, but you could easily be one
of the ladies who clean the house she before she lunches, couldn't you,
darling?"
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Beyonce Castle I
given up my life and any hopes of ever having a career or income even
close to anything you (after years of working your way up the ladder)
are capable of earning, and I did this order to take care of the people I
love, I had the children and you and my
parents to look after, in a recent study it was revealed that parenting
children (a job I have done single handedly as you, do an 8 hour day
and have a further 6 hours of travel) is equivalent to 2.5 full time
jobs, and is actually 24/7, no respite as you are constantly on call, I
also had elderly parents to take care of, and let me tell you looking
after the elderly is no picnic, its hard, dirty, physical and
emotionally draining work. You have worked hard but get to come home and
switch off, if you add up all the hours of work including on call work
with kids, you will find I have already worked twice the years you'll
ever be able to. I have simply done my time and with very little thanks I
have worked herself tirelessly into retirement, you simply need to keep
on working till you have caught me up.
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Claire Khaw "And
I have provided for you all these years and sired your children. While
there is no doubt that you have done all those things, we are all as
good as the last job we did. Please reflect on what I have been saying,
my dear, and ask yourself when was the last time you did something for
me that was not what you would also do for yourself such as making
dinner."
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Claire Khaw "You
had to look after your parents and I did move here so you could more
easily do it. *I* moved here so *you* could look after *your* parents."
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Beyonce Castle you
have benefited from my efforts when I was taking care of your children
and the house. This allowed you to concentrate on your career. Now I am
older and tired, your only concern is that she iI am too expensive to
get rid of.
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Beyonce Castle who
do you think runs the household (groceries, arranging maintenance,
sorting bills, insurance etc) the smooth running of our home by me is
taken hugely for granted by you.
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Claire Khaw "We
must make the best of the situation. I doubt you will be able to
attract a much better husband than me at this stage of life, especially
if they find out that you are not even prepared to help us both have a
more comfortable retirement."
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Claire Khaw "I
am taking for granted that there would be a division of labour in this
partnership. You run the home and I bring home the bacon. Our retirement
bacon would be bigger if we didn't have to give the cleaner so many
slices of of it."
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Claire Khaw 'How many years have we had the cleaner, dear? I hate to quote Tesco, but "every little helps".'
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Claire Khaw "You
know I wouldn't ask this of you if I didn't think circumstances
warranted it. Now, as for my grievances, I find your attitude and manner
towards me leaves something to be desired. Your swearing and
accusations I find hurtful and execrable. I fear that you may have too
much to drink at lunch, and suspect you may even continue to drink after
you have returned home. Is this the case, my dear?"
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Beyonce Castle don't have time to drink, I'm too busy washingyour clothes, grocery shopping, cooking your meals, picking up dog poo
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Beyonce Castle perhaps I should take a few years to retrain and then I could get a job, you can look after the home while I study?
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Claire Khaw "I
don't believe I have ever sworn at you in our entire married life and I
find it dismaying that you should now start swearing at me. I honestly
don't think I will be able to put up with this kind of behaviour,
particularly when you refuse to pull your
weight after I have made known our circumstances to you. I am no longer
a wealthy man with the prospect of a comfortable retirement with a
loving wife, it would appear."
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Claire Khaw "You
do not wash my clothes, you put them in the washing machine and take
them out and put them in the spin dryer afterwards. As for grocery
shopping, you mean you order online and are in when they are delivered.
The cost of pets is prohibitive with a shrinking
pension. When Churchill finally goes, there will be no replacement. If
we don't watch out, we may have to end up eating it for food like some
unfortunate Chinese people had to in times of famine."
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Ummer Farooq This is why elders say eat less, sleep less, talk less, leave the group less.
Or in this case consume less, less big comfort items where things rest on, less arguing and having things in the house that talk to us like TV etc, and less going out in general or deciding to leave family.
ManageOr in this case consume less, less big comfort items where things rest on, less arguing and having things in the house that talk to us like TV etc, and less going out in general or deciding to leave family.
Claire Khaw "I
suppose you could try to find work at the local M&S. They seem to
like mature employees, but not if you swear at anyone who criticises
you."
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Ummer Farooq Ah he listened to his wife for her parents. I get what you mean of beta male.
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Ummer Farooq Only if you're telling the truth.
But it is unfortunate for him. As men like him end up suicide. This is why elders say to leave for 3 days, 40 days, 4 months in the path of time. ...See more
ManageBut it is unfortunate for him. As men like him end up suicide. This is why elders say to leave for 3 days, 40 days, 4 months in the path of time. ...See more
Ummer Farooq Someone
has to find him and personally invite him. Guess I shall go and make
worship and prayer for this man and his family life so that someone
could invite him and he join, which is up to him.
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Claire Khaw Mosques are very good about these things. You basically convert and then ask the mosque to find you a wife or husband.
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Claire Khaw A threat could still work, the threat of mutually assured destruction ....
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Claire Khaw Perhaps as a lifelong Guardian reader he deserves hell from her.
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Ummer Farooq Well at 60 ... He coulf have had a daughter in law. And retired. Some 60 year old die. Before they get to 70.
There's being greatful and then there's being old. His wits end, might truly be his end.
ManageThere's being greatful and then there's being old. His wits end, might truly be his end.
Ummer Farooq And when one gets to 60 one is no longer little.
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