Prostitution in a patriarchy and matriarchy

In a patriarchy, the supply of sex to heterosexual men are supposed to be wives and prostitutes, with the fornicating slut marginalised. The high end of the sex market is wives, the low end of the sex market is prostitutes, because men of the world know that men who cannot find someone to marry them have to make do with prostitutes, because in a patriarchy women would know that to have sex with a man not your husband would be a sexual offence or at the very least bring ruin to her reputation.

In a matriarchy, the main supplier of sex to heterosexual men are fornicating sluts with prostitutes the most marginalised and wives most cheated on. This the matriarchy necessarily has to do to keep men quiescent in a society that prioritises the preferences of the unmarried mother and her illegitimate offspring. The bargain struck with the fornicating slut is basically dishonest, because she pretends it is free but at heart expects or hopes for marriage to be the final outcome. Think of it is being repeatedly given free introductory offers loaded with hidden charges if you break the unwritten rules of transaction eg having to pay for illegitimate offspring you never intended to sire, being accused of regret rape.

Put it this way: patriarchy is transparent, matriarchy is opaque. Patriarchy is transparent because men like the rules to be clear, matriarchy is opaque because ambiguity is the weapon of the uncertain, indecisive, emotional, subjective and capricious.

It would be the easiest thing in the world to make even the women of the meanest intelligence understand that she is not to have sex with any man until she is married to him.